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Posted in Wrestling Forums by sdfVFhg at 10:44, May 01 2013

Propose without pressure

A question for the SMS Audio By 50 men. When you felt you were with the woman you wanted to marry did you propose to her within a decent timeframe and without any pressure? Or did you need a reminder

Also, are there any specific ways you can test a man to see if they really want to marry you? My fiance swears he does but deep down something is missing when he answers me - interest? Enthusiasm? Wholeheartedness? Not entirely sure but I feel hurt whenever I speak to him about it. He answers me and sometimes talks about wedding plans but it's as if he's saying what I want to hear and doesn't often continue the conversation much further. He isn't a planner but my gut is warning me I think.

I think the way my wife got me to propose was to get me to think of it like the best party you will ever have. When you felt you were with the woman you wanted to marry did you propose to her within a decent timeframe and without any pressure? Or did you need a reminder

Also, are there any specific ways you can test a man to see if they really want to marry you? My fiance swears he does but deep down something is missing when he answers me - interest? Enthusiasm? Wholeheartedness? Not entirely sure but I feel hurt whenever I speak to him about it. He answers me and sometimes talks about wedding plans but it's as if he's saying what I want to hear and Street By 50 Headphones doesn't often continue the conversation much further. He isn't a planner but my gut is warning me I think.

I'm looking for some advice here. My fiance and I have been engaged for a year now and we haven't actually set a date yet. We have been fighting a lot because he seems so unenthusiastic about getting married and also inconsistent. One month he says he has money to pay for the wedding and the next he says he doesn't think we can afford it! He doesn't want to put our money together until after we are married. I am 33 and he is 39, never been married, he is on a great income and I am on a decent income so I feel these are excuses to buy more time or avoid it altogether. I have some properties and have said I can sell another one to pay for a wedding. A couple of months ago he agreed we could start trying for children and now he is saying we can't. BTW I have told him how I feel and he swears he wants all of this with me. This living in limbo is driving me crazy and is getting serious due to my biological clock (I am 34 in Dec). Where the hell do you draw the line and take care of your own needs? Has anyone been in a similar situation? What was your decision? Should I just go?

A question for the men. When you felt you were with the woman you wanted to marry did you propose to her within a decent timeframe and without any pressure? Or did you need a reminder

Also, are there any specific ways you can test a man to see if they really want to marry you? My fiance swears he does but deep down something is missing when he answers me - interest? Enthusiasm? Wholeheartedness? Not entirely sure but I feel hurt whenever I speak to him about it. He answers me and sometimes talks about wedding plans but it's as if he's saying what I want to hear and doesn't often continue the conversation much further. He isn't a planner but my gut is warning me I think.

We have something called 'instinct' for a reason. It sounds to me you are more interested in the wedding and children than in the marriage itself. It also sounds to me that the two of you don't have very good communication skils. If you can't even discuss the wedding and when it will occur, how are you going to address the other biggies that will come at you during the course of a marriage? Answer: You won't and will end up miserable and/or SMS Audio By 50 divorced. Better to resolve issues rather than ignore them.

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